Relationships

Based on the book by Joyce Meyer--Approval Addiction
A relationship is not healthy if one person is in control while the other struggles for approval, gaining it by being ready to do anything the other party wants, no matter what it is or how that individual feels about it personally.If we have to sin against our own consciences in order to have someone's approval, we are out of the will of God.
What you allow in the beginning will come to be expected.If we don't established from the beginning what we expect, we will be taken advantage of later.
Sometimes people compromise in the early stages of a relationship in order to get something or someone they want. They think they can change the person later, but it doesn't always work that way.
Wisdom always chooses now what it will be happy with later on. Don't live like there is no tomorrow, because tomorrow always comes.

Ask God to give you "divine connections." He may choose relationships for you that would never have chosen because you have a preconceived ideas about what you want. Learn to look beyond the exterior of people and see their heart.